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Thursday, December 4, 2014

Dressing my Post Prego Body... and Shedding the Pounds

This post is pretty selfish.  It's for me.  It's cool if others enjoy it/are helped by it, but I'm largely posting this for my own accountability and as my "starting point" for my post prego weight loss.


First, let me say this: I'm totally proud of my body.  It grew a beautiful, healthy baby and birthed that baby into the world (and two others before this one!).  How awesome is that?!?  Also, my body continues to be the sole source of nutrition for one quickly growing 6 1/2 week old baby girl.  So, my body totally rocks and I will not beat it up.

That said, I DO want to ... modify it a bit.  That's natural, right?  I gained 40lbs this last pregnancy (the most of all 3) and I have now lost 21lbs, which leaves me with 19 more to go before I reach my pre pregnancy weight.

I will say this: I think I'm pretty lucky because I'm doing a phenomenal job hiding those extra 19lbs.  It's all about strategic clothing choices and here are my go tos/suggestions for other new mamas:

** high waisted leggings to cover the bottom belly pooch
** long, loose shirts/tunic tops
** high waisted athletic pants (see above)

Honestly, these are my go tos, along with accessories to take away the focus from problem areas.  I'm a big fan of colorful scarves because I generally wear a lot of neutral colors.

Obviously, the best accessory of all though is a tiny baby.


Fun earrings are another fun accessory - I got the ones pictured at Claire's.  Yes, Claire's, the teeny bopper store.  I scoffed at the idea of buying stuff there because that was so 20 years ago for me, but then Audrey wanted to go in and I was like "hey, this stuff is cute" and I ate my words and bought some Claire's jewelry.

Back to what I was saying about modifying my shape/losing those lbs...

I posted a pic on my fb page this morning of my first post prego outfit of the day.  The outfit is pretty ho hum whatever, but highlights my points above about how to dress except that I'm wearing real pants which is actually breaking the rules above.  I was just excited to wear real pants.  I want to note that I DON'T fit into any real buttoning/zipping pants of my own yet, but I was lucky enough to borrow some that do fit so I feel more like a real person.


Ok, here's the picture.

Most important here?  That very forgiving shirt.  That shirt is pretty roomy and is winning for hiding my copious muffin top and back fat.  I'm not trying to insult myself, just being real about my muffin top and back fat, which are very real right now.  I also want to demonstrate how awesome clothing is because people are all "you look fantastic" and "you lost all the weight" and no... I really didn't.  I just know how to dress and hide it!

Let me know show you what this picture would be like without the over shirt (which is Banana Republic by the way):


Notice the back roll and front pooch - I really should have taken a front view for the muffin top effect, but you get the idea.  I still have some work to do before I get to where I want to be (which is totally normal - I have a 6 week old!!!).

So, what have I done so far to lose some lbs?  Not a damn thing!  I just ate 2 slices of frozen pizza... 

I mean, I guess I am breastfeeding and chasing after my older 2 kids, but I have yet to do anything active, not even walk.  As for my diet, it's still pretty awful because I'm all, "I'm breastfeeding, I deserve this!"

I do realize I'll probably have to change my tune if I want to shed the last 19lbs and I intend to start slowly.  My goal is to start exercising by the time baby gal is 8 weeks, at least twice a week, for 30 minutes each.  Pretty small start, right?  Well, I want to be successful and I know there is no point in saying I'll exercise 4 times a week or that I'll start tomorrow because those things just ain't gonna happen!

So, that's where I'm at with this post prego weight loss journey and it's a pretty good place to be.  Thanks for letting me get out this selfish post.  While I'm on the topic of being selfish, anyone have any other tips/advice for me for how to dress a post prego body or eating tips to get out of my "I can eat whatever I want" mind set? :)

Stay healthy and happy, friends!  Until next time...

- Amber

Tuesday, December 2, 2014

Thanksgiving, Black Friday, and Christmas to boot!


Okay, guys - here's the deal.  Little man (who isn't so little anymore...) is napping and so is baby girl.  Time is limited before wee baby girl wakes up howling wanting mama milk, so I'm going to try to cram in some updates!! 

Ready?? GO!

1.New blog name/layout

I'm working on this... I have a new NAME for the blog and am working on the layout.  It will probably be a few weeks before I'm ready for a reveal.  Don't worry - you can still go to the same www.thebinkertation.com domain and you will be redirected to the new site once it is up and running

2. THANKSGIVING

We hosted for our third year and I think it was our best yet!  We have a great tradition where my bro and sis in law come over the night before and help with preparations.  Okay, mostly my sis in law helps, but I will admit my brother is great as far as cleaning goes on the day of, so I guess he pulls his weight too ;)

Our menu was super yummy and successful and it was a great day all around.

Some photos!


my mom with Helaina <3


Hubby and I actually pose for a picture!


my lovely sous chef/sis in law, Juliet, with Helaina the night before  :)


That's pretty much the only photo I got of the kids on Thanksgiving and Audrey had to do her "fortune teller" pose.

My fav food of the day was the mac and cheese.  SO YUM.  This was the first year I made mac and cheese, but it won't be the last.

I got the recipe from my friend Taylor's blog - check it out! White Cheddar and Gruyere Mac 'N' Cheese

3. Black Friday

Yup, I went out for my annual ritual/tradition of Black Friday shopping -- even a 6 week old baby doesn't stop me ;)  Good thing is, little lady takes a bottle and the Mr. knows I love my shopping, so off I went.  With a nursing babe, I'm used to being up much of the night and operating on less sleep anyway.  I left right after I fed the babe and was out for about 5 hours.  

Are the deals THAT great?  Of course not...
Can you get the same things online? YES

But, it's just, fun... for me!  So, that's why I keep going.

Oh, I DID get some awesome deals though - Audrey got her super heavy winter coat for $34 (normally $80) and I got some very recently released movies for $4 at Target!  Take that!

4. It's Beginning to Look A Lot Like Christmas...

With Thanksgiving come so late this year, I already feel like we have no time before Christmas!  So much to do!

We got our tree the Saturday after Christmas, but I'm still putting finishing touches on it I have to admit.


Audrey putting her first ornament ever on the tree - we got her this one for her first Christmas and I always snap a shot of her putting it up!


 We normally get TWO trees (always real trees!), but this year, we calmed the crazy and went with ONLY one... The kids are used to having their own little tree to decorate however, so I caved and bought an artificial pre-lit tree for their room.  It pained me a little bit because I'm a real tree gal, but the price helped me relax because man are artificial trees inexpensive!!

pictured: pantless Jameson ...always pantless


6. Updates on Helaina/Gratuitous Baby Pictures

So, last but not least, a few updates on baby Helaina!  Poor third kid... always getting the short end of the stick.  I have to remind myself to take photos of her and what not.  My wonderful grammy got Helaina a baby book and I had better start writing in it or it will never happen.

Helaina had her one month check up in November and gained a whopping 2lbs.  She's a little chunker at almost 11lbs as of today at 6 weeks(birth weight was 7lb 7oz).  Oink oink!

*She loves to nurse!
*Beginning to give us REAL smiles (those are the best)
*Sleeps 3-4 hr stretches overnight
*Has her witching hour(s) between 8pm and 11pm every night
*Used to hate swaddling, likes it now... 
*Loves to be soft and cozy in fleece blankets, so the fleece Halo swaddle sacks are our current fav
*Hates the car and often cries in protest (usually gives up after 5 or so min, thank goodness!)

And... more photos than you probably need, but come ON, she's adorbs!








Quite possibly my favorite!!!  Daddy and his girls :)

What what?! Both kiddos are STILL out and I've wrapped up this post.  ::pats self on back::

I know I crammed a lot in here, so if you stuck with me, thanks!  Hope you all had the best Thanksgiving holiday and didn't feel an ounce of guilt about the ridiculous amount of food you consumed (I know I don't!)

Until next time, my friends...

- Amber


Monday, November 17, 2014

Blog Overhaul


Big changes are coming, my friends.

The blog name.

The blog layout.

The blog focus?

I don't know, I haven't figured it all out yet, but I have outgrown the 'Binkertation' title and I now have THREE kids, one of whom is not reflected in the current layout...not to mention the fact that Jameson is a YEAR OLD in my current background photo, so I should probably work on some updating.

It is, as usual, hard to find time for blogging, but I still love it, so here I stay.  Thanks for hanging in with me for this long, if you have.

What an amazing time capsule I'm creating by keeping my thoughts, photos, and life experiences here.  I want to keep it up for as long as it feels right.

I'm all ears if you've got ideas for me on what you'd like to see in this little blog space, so if you have a minute, don't be shy and definitely let me know what aspects of the blog you've enjoyed the most over the weeks, months, years!  

I can't wait to get this blog makeover underway and even more exciting, I can't wait to share it with all of you.

Until then, I'm planning my Thanksgiving menu (mmm, I want to eat stuffing) and taking advantage of lots of snuggly newborn baby cuddles.

Wishing everyone the happiest of Thanksgivings this year.  I know I've got a lot to be thankful for, and it's nice to be reminded of that because there are plenty of times I want to pull my hair out too ;)

- Amber






Thursday, November 6, 2014

The First Few Weeks

So, here we are.. November already!  Miss Helaina is going to be 3 weeks old on Saturday.  This both astounds me and surprises me... How have 3 weeks passed already?!  But also, hasn't she always been here?  It feels that way, as she fits into our family so perfectly.  She is definitely "along for the ride" and going with the flow of whatever the big kiddos are doing.  I don't jump to pick her up every time she squeals, squirms or whines, and usually, she settles back down.  She has been spending a lot of time snuggled up against me in the Moby wrap so she is, literally, "along for the ride."

Here's a little photo recap of what the first few weeks have been like for us...


At less than a week old, Helaina went out for a frozen yogurt trip with her friend Maggie

 We took the big kiddos to a Trunk or Treat event (more opportunities to wear their costumes = more awesome) Jameson = Spiderman and Audrey = haunted voo doo doll
 Helaina & mama at Trunk or Treat
 We've had lots of visitors...

 We celebrated big sissy's half birthday on 10/28

 Helaina met her great grandparents (my grammy and pop!) and bonus points for them, they brought me a turkey sub for lunch (I'm kind of obsessed)


We've tested out adorable headbands

 Trick or treating with the big sibs!
Helaina met her great grandfather (hubby's grandfather) 
 More visits with awesome friends!
 At only a few weeks old, she's gotten super (milk) drunk more than a few times {photo cred to my friend Melissa for this amazing shot!}
 We voted!
 Received many cuddles, hugs, and loves from big sis
...and in an apparent effort to keep up with the big kids, this little lady is already rolling onto her side with ease.  Slow down, girl, slow down!

So, that's a quick snapshot at the first weeks of little Helaina's life.  She has experienced a lot, huh?  It's kind of funny to think that when Audrey was her age, I had probably taken her out like a total of 2 times and this little lady has been all over the place from day 1.  That's life as the baby in a family of 5!

Speaking of being all over the place, little dude is up, and soon we have to get big sis from school, so I'm off!

Until next time...

- Amber

Friday, October 24, 2014

Helaina Lynn: A Birth Story


Oh hi there.  So, I've got news.  Miss Helaina Lynn is here!

Here are her birth stats:

October 18, 2014 (13 days early)
8:52am
7lb 7oz
20 in.

And here is her cuteness:




And here are her siblings loving on her (they are SO in love):








 If you like reading birth stories, please continue.  If the idea of a baby being pushed out of a vagina is icky to you, you may want to tune out now :)

So... last Friday evening 10/17, two of my best book club gals came over to watch The Fault In Our Stars (great movie, have tissues handy!).  We had an awesome evening and I joked about the crying from the movie making me go into labor, etc.  I DID have a few strong contractions during the movie, but I wasn't really being serious.

The gals left around 12:15am (so, now 10/18) and I just bummed around, not feeling that tired yet.  Towards the end of my pregnancy, sleeping was near impossible, so I was in no hurry to start that battle.  About 30 min later, I decided to give sleeping a go... however, after a few minutes in bed, I was hit with a strong contraction.  This lasted for the next 1-2 hours...every 20 minutes or so.  Around this time, the contractions got to the point where I couldn't continue lying in bed when one hit.  I had to get up and rock/moan/breathe through it.

Around this time, I thought, well, this is different.  I had been having contractions for weeks, but not the kind that required me to stand up and move and breathe through.  These were painful.

I still wasn't convinced I was in labor though.  I had several false alarms in the previous weeks, so it was going to take quite a bit to convince me it was the real deal.  I TRIED to sleep, but without success.  The contractions continued all night long.  I was also starting to shiver uncontrollably which I vaguely recalled to be a labor sign (and it is!).

Around 5:30am, I gave up on sleeping and got out of bed.  The contractions were about 10 min. apart at this point.  I told Shaun to go ahead and give his dad a call.  His dad was on call to be our big kid wrangler while we were at the hospital.  My niece Imogene's 3rd birthday paty was planned for later in the day Saturday, so I figured hey, let's get him out here since he'll be here anyway.  At that point, I was thinking we may go to the hospital at some point, but I wasn't 100% yet.  I called my mom too, basically to tell her the same thing- I *might* be in labor, I don't know, we'll see... waiting and watching kind of thing.

After I got off the phone with my mom around 5:45am, I climbed into the tub to help ease the pain of the contractions.  That was a big fat fail by the way.  The warm water DID NOT help... I mean, it felt nice, but when a contraction hit, I wanted to move, so that was a no go.  I got out of the tub a little after 6 and things started picking up.  Just 30 minutes earlier, my contractions were 10 minutes apart, but all of this sudden, I checked my timer and they were about 3 min. apart. WHOA.

At that point, I knew we were definitely going to the hospital once my father in law arrived.  He got to the house around 7am, expecting to walk into a calmer situation since we told him "meh... we don't know, but come on out"  Once he saw the pained look on my face and my slow steps, he knew we were going.

We headed out the door to the hospital which is thankfully only 15 minutes away.  We were in labor & delivery triage by about 7:25am.  I told everyone I saw that I wanted on the epidural list ASAP.  The pain was pretty bad at this point... I mean, tolerable, but BAD.  I had an epidural with Audrey, I didn't have one with Jameson (he came too fast), and it was my personal decision that I would very much like this birth to be medicated.  I had the comparison of with vs. without and I knew what I wanted.  

The nurse and midwife were all "yeah, okay, let's get you checked to see if you are in labor"  I was 5-6cm dilated and contracting about every 2-3 min.  Once they talked to my doc who was on her way to the hospital, everyone hopped to.  It turns out my doc informed them that my last labor was about 3 hours start to finish and that she expected this one to come fast also.

They got me back to the l&d room and the anesthesiologist came in around 8:10am.  Oh, happy day!!!!  The epidural took a long while to place... oh man, that is not a good feeling.  It doesn't hurt, but it feels WEIRD and it takes a long time and you have to sit still, etc. which isn't easy to do while working through a very painful contraction.

Around 8:30am or so, the epidural was placed and they had me lie flat on my back just to make sure everything was working as it should.  Within 5 minutes or so, I could tell the epi was kicking in and when I had a contraction, I felt pressure, but not the intense pain I had felt before.  Woo hoo.

However, not but a few minutes later, I told my doc who had just came in that I felt PRESSURE, like a LOT of pressure and it seemed like more than just contractions.  She suspected that it was my water ballooning and she was going to break my water (doc had to break my water with my previous babes as well).

So, she goes to break my water, but guess what?  It had already broken... I thought I felt a trickle over time, but there was never a big gush.  She confirmed the waters were already broken and the fluid was clear.\

Then, she said, well if you're feeling all that pressure and it's not the water, I bet it's the baby.  I was thinking... huh WHAT?!  I JUST got here, I JUST got the epidural, I've got hours to go... I'm going to call people and tell them it's real deal, etc.

So, she goes to check my cervix and... she feels a baby head.

Yeah, that's how far down she already was - baby girl was ready to go.  I got the epidural JUST in time.

So, my doc suited up and around 8:48am, she told me I could push.  2 pushes later, Helaina was born at 8:52am.  What a whirlwind!!

So, my labor was definitely longer than with Jameson's, but the hospital event was all pretty fast.  When Helaina was born, it was just incredible.  I didn't feel any of that new mom hesitation, I just grabbed that beautiful baby and held her against me.  I had her with me a good 15-20 min. before they even weighed her which was incredible.

Within 2 hours of birth, Helaina nursed for the first time and did awesome.  

All of those months of waiting and wondering and worrying and our baby girl is finally here and healthy.  And, we are so so so blessed.

Until next time...

- Amber


Monday, October 13, 2014

Fall Family Photos

It has been a tradition for awhile now for us to get professional family photos about once a year.  None of us really enjoys the process of taking the photos... Shaun and Jameson least of all, but we all enjoy HAVING them.

We had our photos done about 3 weeks ago by Stephanie Zahn of Caught Fire Photography.  If you're a Baltimore local, she's your gal.  Definitely check out her work!  She's great to work with (and affordable as well), oh, and you will see, her work is incredible.

Jameson was oh so NOT into getting his photo taken this day, so with that in mind, they turned out much better than I was expecting!

Take a peek at some of my favs... before long, we'll have to do another photo shoot with new baby gal (and no, I didn't have that baby yet!) ;)


















As you may have noticed, it's also a tradition for Jameson to bring along to said photo shoot.  Last year, it was Thomas and this year it was his helicopter. I expect the tradition to continue for quite some time...

I have already ordered prints because I'm SO excited to get these pics up and displayed.

So, what about you?  Does your family get professional photos done with any regularity or do you just do your own?

- Amber